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Abstract

This ONE startling idea could end your frustration, anxiety, and headaches
about finding love forever...

The Shockingly Simple But Alarming Reason Why Smart, Strong, Successful Women
Have A Harder Time Finding Quality Men Than 'Average' Women!
(Plus, What You Can Do About It!)

"The Most Amazing Book Ever!"

"Hi Evan, I've been reading your emails and recently purchased your
e-book "Why He Disappeared". Not because I was looking for an answer
but just to see what it was all about, and OMG It has got to be one of
the most, perhaps better say, the most AMAZING BOOK EVER. Even if a
person is not in that situation, they should still purchase it as it
gives insight of sooooooo many things that one, as a woman, would never
even dream that we could be making such mistakes. I honestly recommend
it to every lady out there. It's a must have!!!! It's not even an
option, even if you are in a stable relationship or no relationship at
all, it doesn't matter, every woman out there should have a copy!!!"
Michelle D.

Dear Friend,

If you've...
* Ever wondered why you seem to attract all the wrong TYPES of men...
* Ever wondered why your girlfriends, co-workers, and acquaintances
all seem to be involved in healthy, loving relationships (even if
they're not as pretty or intelligent as you) - but you aren't...
* Ever wondered why the GOOD men always seem to disappear from your
life...
* Gone from wondering "when" you will meet the man of your dreams...
to wondering "if" good men even EXIST...
* Ever felt anxiety, frustration, even fear that you will NEVER find
a good man... and dread the prospect of being alone forever...

...then this will be the most important message you will EVER read!

Here's why:

My name is Evan Marc Katz, and I'm known as a "Personal Trainer For
Women Who Want To Fall In Love."

And in the next few minutes I'm going to show you how to stop making
the dating mistakes (you may not even know you're making) that prevent
smart, strong, successful women (like YOU!) from getting the GOOD men
you desire and deserve.

PLUS, I'm going to reveal not only how to stop these subconscious
mistakes but I'm going to show you how to ATTRACT and KEEP a man who is
worthy of YOU...

Order Now-

Here's what this is all about.

Why Don't Men Like Strong, Smart, Successful Women?

Before I explain to you what you're too close to see, I want to share a
hypothetical letter I received from a man who is struggling in love,
just like you:

Dear Evan,

I'm what you'd call a "nice guy." I make a good living, I'm pretty
attractive, and I treat women well. In fact, all of my female
friends comment on what a great catch I am. But then I see those
same women dating jerks. Yet they would never consider going out
with me! So what do you think? Am I cursed to be alone just because
I know how to be kind to women? Isn't being nice a good quality?
What's wrong with women these days? Please let me know.

Jason

Men reading this might empathize with Jason.

But while you may feel bad for Jason, you'd also want to him to know
that it's not BECAUSE he's nice that he's not attracting women. It's
because he's doesn't have masculine energy. It's because he constantly
seeks the approval of others. It's because he's not sexually
aggressive. It's because he sacrifices his personal power to be
conciliatory. These are common attributes of nice guys, yet nice guys
think that women don't like nice guys BECAUSE they're nice.

Not true. Women want nice guys - nice guys with opinions who stand up
for themselves and know how to take control.

Smart women are very much like nice guys.

"I'm intelligent, I'm direct, I'm successful, yet I can't seem to find
a quality guy who appreciates me."

But here's the truth: men actually like smart women.

I do.

My smart, strong, successful male counterparts do as well.

So how is it that you haven't met any of them?

Well, you probably have, actually.

Is It Possible That You've Already Met Your Soul-Mate - The Man You Were
Meant To Be With - But When You Met He Didn't Feel The Same Connection?

No way!

Impossible, right?

Your perfect man would immediately recognize your beauty, wit, charm,
intelligence, and kindness, right?

Well despite what you may think, when you meet a man, there's much more
going on than merely a meeting of the minds.

Your good qualities sometimes come with a significant downside that is
painful to acknowledge.

Take me, for example. I'm a reasonably bright guy. I make a fair
living. I can write a decent book. These are my good traits. But right
behind my good traits are a series of bad traits. Even my own wife
would acknowledge that:

The flip side of being bright is being opinionated.
The flip side of being analytical is being difficult.
The flip side of being funny is being sarcastic.
The flip side of having moral clarity is being arrogant.
The flip side of being entrepreneurial is being a workaholic.
The flip side of being charismatic is being self-centered.

Again, not EVERY person who is bright is opinionated, and not EVERY
person who is funny is sarcastic. But there's enough anecdotal evidence
to suggest a strong correlation. And I'm just talking about MYSELF
here. And if my good qualities come with bad qualities, have you
considered that yours might as well?

Is your blood boiling at me yet? All because I'm telling you something
essential to understanding men that you've gone your entire life
without knowing?

What never occurs to you is that you're being evaluated on far more
than your most "impressive" traits.

The Critical Missing "Puzzle Piece" That Could Change Your Love Life
Forever...

And this is what escapes most strong, smart, successful women.

This is the secret to creating a love that LASTS.

Just in case you didn't get it, let me sum up the secret for you right
now.

Understand what men really want - not what they SHOULD want - and
you'll have your PICK of quality men!

I know you're undoubtedly a great catch.

You can teach us a thing or two.

You are a go-getter and worthy of everyone's respect.

But if that go-getter side ends up emasculating your man, or makes him
feel insignificant, or second-guessed, he's not really getting what he
wants out of a partner.

Men want to feel masculine.

We want to feel needed.

And When You Can Consistently Make Us Feel This Way You Will Discover A Whole
New World Of Quality Men You Never Knew Existed!

It's true, once you understand this perspective, your love life starts
to get very interesting, and very exciting - very quickly!

How?

I'm about to show you how, by revealing how to APPLY this secret into
your love life!

But first, a warning.

The majority of what I'm about to reveal may seem counter-intuitive -
maybe even hard to believe. But that should actually be affirming and
comforting.

Because if everything you've been conditioned to believe about men,
about dating, and about love was correct -then you wouldn't be reading
this letter.

You'd already be in a happy, committed relationship with the man of
your dreams!

Since you're not, I'd think you'd be extremely interested in
learning...

The 3 Biggest Dating Truths
That Most Women Will NEVER Know About Men!

(and how they can finally give you the deep,
loving relationship you've always desired...)

You see, I've got a feeling you've spent a lot of time beating yourself
up over things you couldn't control. Things like...
* Why men don't see you as "relationship material" and not want a
serious relationship with you...
* Why you keep choosing all the wrong men...
* Why men may lose interest in you, even after several dates or being
intimate with you...
* Why some men may see you as "needy", even if you're not...
* Why you will feel that men have all of the power in your
relationships, and you have none...
* Why the few men you ARE attracted to never stick around...

And I'm here to tell you that all of these issues are NOT YOUR FAULT!

That's right, like I told you before, you've been programmed since
childhood to believe a particular set of principles.

The tragic thing about this is... they're sometimes more harmful then
helpful.

I know they want nothing but the best for you, but everyone from your
mother and your girlfriends, to Oprah and Cosmo have been feeding you
these same, misleading theories because they aren't men - and they
don't fully understand what makes us tick.

So if what you've been doing thus far hasn't been working, it's time to
try something new.

Here's EXACTLY what you need to know to STOP the good men from
disappearing from your life, in order to create real love that lasts...

Truth #1:

Why A Man Will Pull Away
When It's Time To Commit...

(Men Are About Feelings, Not About Looks)

If you've ever been baffled at how men sometimes pull away from you
when it's time to commit, believe me, I understand. I've been dumped
before and I remember the raw confusion, trying to reconcile how
something so good could possibly go bad.

Now as a man, I don't claim to speak for every guy, everywhere. I only
speak for good, solid, relationship oriented men - the guys who are
over the drama of dating hot, crazy women. Guys who want to date hot,
crazy women aren't really good relationship bets, so you shouldn't
worry too much when they disappear.

Anyway, every normal guy has had the experience of dating someone
attractive and then breaking up with her. The physical is what pulls us
in, but there's a high price to pay for this kind of dysfunctional
relationship.

You've probably done the same thing: been so drawn by attraction that
you never looked up and considered that you're always fighting, you're
always breaking up, and that, in between the great sex, there's very
little peace and contentment.

Are men drawn to smart, strong, successful women? You bet. The same way
that you're drawn to smart, strong, successful men. Really. Those
characteristics are universally attractive and are considerable assets
to you.

But where women and men often diverge is that we're looking for
different things. You're looking for a man who is taller, stronger,
smarter, funnier, wealthier.

We're not. We're looking for what we doesn't have ourselves, what we
can't get at work, what we can't get from our male friends: warmth,
compassion, kindness, generosity, femininity.

Thus, your brains and beauty will always attract men, but they won't
keep them.

Men may not even be able to articulate this themselves, but we want to
feel needed, trusted, important, masculine, sexy, smart, funny, and
heroic. In other words, we want you to see us the way we see ourselves.
We want you to treat us the way you want to be treated. We want to feel
unconditionally loved and accepted, despite our many flaws.

And if we don't get all of that, we're going to find a woman who does.

That's why it doesn't matter how impressive you are. You could be a
Rhodes Scholar/TopChef/Supermodel, but if we constantly feel
criticized, micromanaged, unattractive, emasculated, pressured and
undermined, we're gonna move on.

So when you're trying to assess how to keep a guy around, remember:

Men are about feelings, not about looks.

Make us feel like a million bucks and we're not going anywhere.

"I Had Soooo Many 'Aha' Moments!"

"So eight months ago, I was a clueless girl who was good at scaring
guys away. But throughout my life I had never been taught how to handle
men. I took guesses with everything I did, and a lot of the time it
didn't end very well. Guy after guy broke my heart. I was so sick of
it, so I decided to do something about it.

I bought the ebook 'Why He Disappeared'. BEST money I've ever spent,
worth every penny! I had soooo many 'aha!' moments: I realised all the
things I had been doing wrong all this time. I made a pledge to change
my dating approaches, and soon after, the best thing happened to me.

A month later after getting the book, the guy of my dreams asked me
out. He was everything that I could have asked for! I could not believe
that by applying all of Evan's advice could help us to fall in love
with each other.

A month after being with him, he told me that he realised I was the one
for him. He texts me first everyday and always replies promptly to my
messages. I never ever have worry thinking 'is he going to text me?' or
'is he going to reply?'. He calls me beautiful and he treats me so
nicely. He's understanding, supportive and doesn't pressure me to do
anything. He's so fun to hang out with, and his playful teasing makes
me giggle. He always wants to spend time with me, and he hints at a big
future.

We have been in love for seven months now. Evan, you simply are a
genius!! I cannot thank you enough for the amazing work you wrote in
WHD. I think you have helped me to find the one!"
Anna N.

Truth #2:

The Single Biggest Dating Mistake That Women Make... And What You Can
Do About It!

(You Don't Attract The Wrong Men.
You ACCEPT The Wrong Men)

What happens when you find yourself incredibly attracted to a man?
Well, there's the feeling of chemistry and everything that comes along
with it - the obsessive highs that come with wanting to be with him,
the joy of feeling incredibly connected, and, what you may forget, the
willful blindness that allows you to overlook his flaws.

That's one of the most miraculous things about chemistry: it allows you
to focus only on the good and ignore all the bad.

This is incredibly apparent to me since I receive hundreds of comments
from women every week - attributing their relationship failures to
attracting the wrong men. First of all, let's get one thing straight:

MOST men are the wrong men. If you were an average woman, you'd be able
to be with an average man and be content. Since you're an above average
woman - smart, strong, successful - your standards are going to go up
accordingly.

So if, by your standards, 95% of men are the WRONG men, it makes it
that much harder to find ANY guy to date, and makes each new man who
does qualify seem all the more important. Once a guy passes through
your strong chemistry filter, he's in.

By this point, you've forgotten the fundamental downside of chemistry:
it allows you to focus only on the good and ignore all the bad.

Which is why you can have incredible chemistry and end up in a TERRIBLE
relationship, where he doesn't call you, doesn't sleep with you,
doesn't compliment you, doesn't make you feel safe, and doesn't commit
to you.

But you stick around because of how strong your rare FEELINGS are.
You've now discovered the real secret to why you're in dead end
relationships:

You don't attract the wrong men, you accept the wrong men.

If you consistently find yourself in relationships with liars,
cheaters, addicts, leeches, or commitmentphobes, your job isn't to get
them to stop lying, cheating, drinking, mooching or committing. Your
job is to leave.

At a certain point, it's not his fault for being flawed.

It's your fault for thinking that your chemistry is powerful enough to
change your broken relationship. Remember, most men are the wrong men.
Men with chemistry are the ones who break through, but you give them a
free pass, even when they don't deserve it.

You'll never stop attracting the wrong men, but starting now, you can
stop ACCEPTING the bad behavior of the wrong men... and save yourself
years of heartbreak and pain.

"Life and Dating Is Fun Again!"

"Prior to finding your website I was in a dead-end relationship. Again.
I was seeing my ex on a regular basis desperately trying to be the one
he would commit to. He broke up with me three years ago. But I had not
been able to move on because I was hoping that I could change my self
and that he would soon start to love me the way I certainly loved him.
So he became a friend with benefits...leaving me in a hopeless state.

Anyway I found your "Why De Disappeared..." book five months ago, and
it has meant the world to me, to read that I wasn't alone about this
situation. It gave me so many insights so I can't count them all! But
the one that really changed it for me was the one that said "he wasn't
such a great guy". It made me think finally about who he really was,
and how he had been treating me, and at last my rose-colored glasses
fell off!! Hurrah! And it got me thinking of how I look at myself and
how I immediately try to change myself to fit the man I meet instead of
first see if he is a man I would like to meet!

After all the insights from your book, I managed to tell my ex that we
were finished with each other. I was even able to stick with that
decision even though he tried to meet up again. I saw so clearly that
he'd been treating me poorly for as long as I knew him and he wasn't
such a great guy at all. I finally figured out that I deserved better.

Better yet, I met a new man that treats me like a queen. He is a real
giver, kind, considerate, generous, eager to make me feel safe and
secure. We have been seeing each other for four months and it keeps
getting better. And even though I am happy with him I don't jump to any
conclusions about the future, I just relax and let things unfold
naturally. I give all the credit to you, Evan!!

Without all your teachings about men and how they think I would not
been able to move on. I am so grateful for all your teachings and your
wonderful humour that lightens up the whole subject. It means the world
to me. I also appreciate the lighthearted tone you have, since I've
been so depressed about the whole men thing for quite some time. But
thanks again, dear Evan. You cured me!

Life and dating is fun again.

Much love, "

Anneli M.,
Sweden

Truth #3:

Open And Love or Close and Suffer...

(Why You Have to Assume the Best,
Rather Than the Worst in Men)

"Open and love or close and suffer" - David Deida

You've been hurt by men before. You've been hurt bad. You've vowed to
learn from the experience and protect yourself from that ever happening
again.

And to protect yourself from being hurt by a man, you:

Choose not to date at all.
Try to make him earn your trust.
Pull away from a guy at the first hint of trouble.
Tell him your relationship goals on the first few dates.
Want to clarify where things are headed in the first few months.

Those are all perfectly rational. The problem is: the only thing you're
protecting yourself from is the possibility of falling in love.

Let me explain.

Look at your life. You probably work a minimum of 40 hours a week. You
probably have friends and hobbies and family. You're probably really,
really, wary of men.

And because of your previous experience, you do everything in your
power to prevent the "wrong men" from getting in. You're vigilant about
looking for the red flags to protect yourself from getting hurt. And
you find them everywhere you go. As a result, you remain single for
years at a time.

Think of it like a visual metaphor. You live in a house. Mr. Right is
walking down the street, trying to find his Ms. Right. There are two
houses right next to each other that look identical. They're gorgeous,
modern, spacious, well-decorated, inviting. Except for one minor thing.
The house on the left has a 10 foot brick wall around it. The house on
the right has an open door, upbeat music playing, and the smell of
chocolate chip cookies wafting out.

Which of these identical houses do you think Mr. Right is going to peek
into?

It's kind of a no-brainer.

Now you can make the argument that the RIGHT man would try to figure
out how to scale the 10 foot wall. You can make the argument that the
REASON there's a wall is that there's some crime in the neighborhood
and you'd been robbed twice before. You can justify that protective
wall in every way possible. But it doesn't change the bottom line.

A good man doesn't need to break down or scale your wall. He's just
going to look for a warm, inviting, open door.

To take it even further:

A good man will not be able to find you if you're working 11 hours a
day.
A good man doesn't need to earn your trust if he's never done anything
wrong.
A good man may have a number of characteristics that you might not
like.
A good man takes relationships seriously and can't promise that he will
know after a few months that you are destined for the altar.

So while I deeply empathize with you if you're trying to avoid
"wasting" time by trying to figure out the future before HE knows the
future. Just know that you're sabotaging any real chance you have to
form a real trusting connection.

You have to go in with an open mind and a clear head. At any point you
have the right to determine that he's not the one for you, and he has
the right to determine that you're not the one for him. It's called
dating.

Instead of trying to figure everything out up front to protect yourself
from getting hurt, give yourself to the process and let him reveal his
character over time.

Opening the door and assuming the best will make the good men gravitate
towards you.

Treat him as if he's going to hurt you and a good guy is not going to
want to stick around.

"This Has Made Me Feel So Powerful!"

"I am in a seven-month relationship with a man who I have seen you
describe as the "macho" type. (That is just his fa�ade though, he's
really sweet and sensitive inside). Anyway, my macho man doesn't give
me tons and tons of positive feedback - I think he thinks I KNOW how he
feels. I got "Why He Disappeared" because I really love being with
John and I didn't want my insecurities to mess things up. I have been
getting your emails since before I met him and your approach has made a
big difference to how I react with this man who makes my insides
squishy! I really wanted to get specifics on what men want!

I learned what he needed from me and I used the advice on our recent
weekend in Vermont. I made him feel good being around me. I was the
fun, sexy, carefree girlfriend that guys want to be around. He very
obviously had fun on our weekend. He was proud to have me around his
friends and after that weekend, he has warmed up considerably. This has
made me feel so powerful!

Thanks Evan! "
Susan C.

Now, How Would You Like The Blueprint to Magnetically Attracting and KEEPING
The Man Of Your Dreams?

If you learned something just now, and are curious to know how deep
this rabbit hole goes, then here's some REALLY good news.

As a smart, strong, successful woman who is probably a bit jaded about
the possibility of finding a quality man, have you ever wondered...
* What signs you can use to identify that a man wants a relationship
and is not "damaged goods"?
* How you can tell whether a man will likely act with integrity and
honesty in a relationship?
* The best way to weed out the game-players quickly?

Or have you ever wondered...
* Why do men fool around? Why do they lie and cheat and refuse to let
you go, while keeping you hanging on without a commitment?
* Why do some women get attracted to "bad boys" and often spend years
trapped in abusive situations with selfish and narcissistic men?
* Why do you always seem to date the same people: guys who treat you
poorly. Why are you not attracted to the guys who treat you well?

Why He Disappeared

Heck, some of these experiences may keep happening to you again and
again and again - which is why I am so excited to introduce you to my
groundbreaking new e-book "Why He Disappeared - The Smart, Strong,
Successful Woman's Guide to Understanding Men and Keeping the Right One
Hooked Forever."

In it, I finally reveal what men REALLY talk about when you're not
around.

But instead of trying to explain it...

Here's an actual taste of what's inside "Why He Disappeared!"

Part 1 Why He Disappeared After Your Date
* Why the traits you value most in men are probably NOT the same
traits a man values in YOU. PLUS - how to use this to your
advantage... (page 26)
* How an ancient Zen Buddhist philosophy will dramatically help
shortcut your path to success with men (page 27)
* Have your cake and eat it too! How, by letting go of control of the
small things, you get to win the more important issues, and still
have a healthy relationship with a type A male! (page 32)
* The most startling revelation for strong, smart, and successful
women who desire strong, smart, and successful men...After you
"get" this, it'll change your perspective on dating forever! (page
35)
* The TINY thing you can do on your dates to create a HUGE positive
impact with men! And no it doesn't involve showing more skin,
"dumbing yourself down," or changing who you are in any way...
(page 44)
* Your personal checklist to making a man feel special... how many of
these are you getting right... and wrong? (page 52-53)
* The surefire way to turn a horrible date... into a GREAT date!
Don't worry, it's not as hard as you think... (page 54-55)

Part 2 Why He Disappeared During Your Courtship
* Why knowing "why" a man disappeared is completely pointless... and
what you should REALLY focus on once he's gone... (page 64)
* The most infuriating, but liberating concept you'll read in "Why He
Disappeared" - and how it could save you years of headache,
frustration, and resentment towards men! (page 65)
* Better than X-Ray Vision: how to determine - from the onset - which
men are the real deal and which men will break your heart! (page
66)
* The specific list of behaviors that may make him think you're
clingy... even if you're not! (page 69)
* How doing NOTHING can actually be the most proactive and helpful
thing you can do during the courtship period! (page 70)
* The hard and fast rule about when to have sex. I cover this subject
in explicit detail so that you'll never be hurt by a player
again... (page 80-85)
* The ONLY 2 things that reveal how a man REALLY feels about you. If
he isn't showing you these 2 things, then it's a clear sign to move
on... (page 89)

Part 3 Why He Disappeared From Your Relationship
* Why keeping the baggage from your prior, negative experiences will
actually turn off the well-adjusted, open, relationship oriented
men. (page 97)
* The single most attractive quality that a woman can exhibit to a
man. Knowing this single piece of information can create a HUGE
breakthrough in your dating life! (page 99)
* Why "always being yourself" could quite possibly be the WORST
advice you could ever follow... (page 102)
* A personal account of how an extraordinary woman got a
"player-for-life" to stop disappearing and start proposing! FYI -
that player was ME! (page 103)
* The truth about "chemistry" and why it could be the most misleading
quality in creating a love that lasts... (page 120)
* The 2 essential steps to being the "cool" girl that quality men
want! What I'm telling you works like a charm on EVERY guy... (page
126)
* The most important, earth-shattering, and revolutionary advice that
you can get about why he disappeared! HINT - it's not what you
think! (page 129)

Plus, you'll get a whole lot more groundbreaking information designed
to help you attract and keep the quality man you desire and deserve.

How To Tell If This Groundbreaking Book Is For YOU...

Every single day, I spend hours on the phone talking to women just like
you.

When I say "I feel your pain," I really feel it.

I wipe away virtual tears, give long-distance hugs, and deal with
complex human emotions that come with this territory.

This is what I hear, daily:

MEN are the ones who slept with me and didn't call.
MEN are the ones who acted like they cared and backed off.
MEN are the ones who allowed me to fall in love when they wouldn't
commit.

But there's nothing you can do to change your past.

There's nothing you can do to get revenge.

There's nothing you can do to hurt him in the way he hurt you.

All you can do is vow not to make the same mistakes again - which means
no more charming, charismatic, commitmentphobes who put their needs
above yours.

From now on, the only things that will determine whether you let him
into your heart are his kindness, his consistency, and his character.

So...
* If, despite everything you've been through, if you are still open
to the possibility of true love....
* If you can remain optimistic and remember the things you love about
men - our strength, our humor, our generosity, our kindness...
* If you can keep an open mind and a "glass half-full" perspective
while we take this journey together...
* If you're willing to step outside of your comfort zone and at least
TRY and embrace some of these new principles we'll cover...
* And if you still believe in "happily ever after..."

Then "Why He Disappeared" is for you.

"I Just Need The Reminder
That Guys Do Not Think Like Me..."

"I think I just needed the reminder that guys do not think like me and
that they are not as "complex" as me. I also need the reminder to not
"lead". I am a very confident strong person who is very successful in
my career and very well liked by my friends... I am laid back but yet I
do have a hard time with control when it comes to my relationships. I
was married to someone who was so dependent on me and so smothering
that I completely lost all respect for him... But I also see that I
formed our relationship that way. I don't want that again - ever!

Now I can sit back and say yes the next time around.

I am still a work in progress :) but at least I am working on it. Thank
you for having a good perspective that doesn't involve games. I am a
very true - heart on my sleeve person that just wants to eventually
find someone that adds more positivity and fun to my already great
life."

Kerri A.

But Evan, I Already Know "Why He Disappeared"...

I have no doubt that there are plenty of instances when you knew
exactly what happened.

He was a cheater.

He was a player.

He was a commitmentphobe.

He was emotionally unavailable.

Those guys are the worst and there's nothing either of us can do to
wish them away.

You can't make cheaters stay faithful.

You can't force a commitmentphobe to commit.

You can't open up an emotionally unavailable guy to the beauty of
vulnerability and trust.

There's literally NOTHING to learn when your guy is too selfish to be
in a relationship.

What you CAN learn by reading "Why He Disappeared" is why the GOOD guys
might disappear - the ones you WANT to keep.

It's easy to think that you already understand men based on all of your
life experience.

But I'd ask you to reframe this in another way:

Do you think that most men really, truly, understand YOU?

Of course not!

So why do you think that you really, truly understand the motives of
men?

The ability to understand what's truly going on is paramount to your
own happiness.

As a man, it's my job to give you a tour inside the male mind and let
you know what we're REALLY thinking.

I think you'll be quite surprised at what you learn.

"I Cannot Believe How Clueless I've Been About Dating!"

"Hi Evan,

I've just finished reading the ebook & right now I wish the floor would
open up and swallow me I'm shocked, embarassed and I cannot believe how
clueless I've been about dating. When I play back the way I've
behaved\handled situations in the past and how men read them, I am
disappointed in myself & it feels like a saw cutting through my chest!
I thought I had it all figured out - Great book and it left me
speechless.

Thanks,"

Thatha M.

But I can see you now - arms crossed, an eyebrow raised, a skeptical look on
your face...

And I can hear you saying...

"What's the point, Evan?
If I can't change men, why even bother to understand them?"

Because, after reading my eBook, "Why He Disappeared," you will never
again make ANY of the same mistakes you've made in the past.

You'll be empowered with knowledge instead of grasping for straws about
what the next guy is thinking.

You'll literally ALWAYS make the right decisions in handling men -
identifying and cut off the bad ones, opening up to the good ones, and
learn how to make the best ones want to stick around forever.

"I don't need this.

The real problem is that I just haven't met the right guy."

Maybe you haven't met the right guy.

But, as a dating coach for smart, strong, successful women, I'd
maintain that you might not even know him if you saw him.

I'm not putting you down - I was blind to what was good for me for most
of my life.

Then I realized, from years of coaching women, what I was doing wrong
myself.

So isn't it possible that, like me, you've been choosing the wrong men?
I think so.

To view it from another perspective, do you have any girlfriends about
whom you could tell me EXACTLY why they're still single?

Of course, you do.

They do, too.

You.

"Why He Disappeared" tells you what you need to hear, not what you want
to hear.

But what you need to hear - from a guy's perspective - is exactly
what's going to set you free, and change your relationships with men
forever.

"It's Far Better To Let A Man Tell You How A Man Thinks!"

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"Most of the books and information about men and dating that I have
read were written by women... that's mistake number 1. For many years I
listened to my women friends dispense advice on how to relate and
communicate with men.

Now, after reading Why He Disappeared, I understand that it's far
better to let a man tell you how a man thinks and feels when he's
dating!

The book helped me to understand the fundamental differences between
men and women when it comes to dating and communicating. Men do not
process information the way women do, so it makes no sense to expect
that they will. Once I grasped that concept, my expectations changed
and my frustration dissipated.

The best lesson from Why He Disappeared that I learned was the simplest
-- Just. Do. Nothing. It freed me up and empowered me to focus on other
areas of my life while continuing to date."

Julie F.

"The problem isn't me...
It's MEN!"

I'm not, for one second, defending men who have mistreated you in any
way.

I'm not defending guys who sleep with you once and never call again.

I'm not defending guys who only communicate by text message and booty
call.

I'm not defending guys who string you along for five years without
proposing.

I'm pointing out that those men will ALWAYS exist, no matter what I say
or do.

The reason I wrote Why He Disappeared is because the solution to this
is not to close your eyes and wish these men away, but to keep reading
and realize how to identify these men and break away from them before
they do their damage.

Once you avoid the unhealthiest of men, the NEXT question is how to
make the healthy ones - the millions of men who DO want to get married
- choose to stick with YOU.

"I Had Been Badly Hurt By A Cheater When I Was 25..."

"WHD let me find out why I've been single until the age of 50. I've
had doubts about men ever since I was badly hurt by a cheater when I
was 25. Since then, instead of meeting a guy, I put my energy into my
career. I worked in the financial industry, got an MBA, got my Green
Card 3 years ago and got a better job. But I still never felt content.
I started to find that my work was merely an escape from dating and
marriage.

Your WHD 'Chapter 2' showed me that my suspicious attitude toward men
made guys uncomfortable around me. I have to completely erase that
suspicion and see that every guy is different. WHD helped me get over
nearly three decades of being sad. Thank you very much. I am 50 but
hope to find love soon."

Yuko T.

Okay Evan, so I MIGHT be interested...
but how much does "Why He Disappeared" cost?

It's interesting, just the other day I was thinking about why some
women complain about their love lives, yet will do NOTHING to change
their situations - even when the solution is staring at them in the
face.

And I realized that these women simply must not put as much value on
love and happiness as they think.

Which really got me thinking: What IS valuable?

Is value derived from how much pleasure you get out of something? A
trip to Paris. A new Mercedes. A gorgeous pair of shoes.

Or is value derived from how much pain is prevented? Chemo to eradicate
a cancerous tumor. A year of therapy to help you cope with a loss. An
eyelift to make you feel younger.

Personally, I think the removal of pain is a LOT more valuable - for
two reasons.
1. The value of a purchase diminishes over time. Your shoes, your car,
your vacation...all feel amazing at the time, but it's usually a
temporary high.
2. The value of pain removal is priceless and lasts forever. Removing
pain frees you up to live a happy, healthy, carefree life. You can
buy all the cars and trips you want, but if you are sad or sick, it
doesn't really matter.

It's hard to put a price on happiness or pain, but each time you make
an investment, you're doing just that.

Me, too. My physical therapist is supposed to heal my bad hip.
Apparently, it's worth a few thousand dollars for me to be able to run
again. It's not that I'm a triathlete, but by removing my source of
pain, I stand to be a much happier person.

In short, removing pain opens you up to pleasure.

So let me ask you: how much pain have you been carrying around due to a
lifetime of disappointing relationships?

What has it cost you emotionally each time you've gotten your heart
broken?

What has it cost you in terms of time, energy, mental health, and
happiness?

How much would it be worth if you could remove the source of your pain
FOREVER, and create the opportunity for EVERLASTING LOVE with a good
man?

Would it be worth more than the $25,000+ you'd pay for a car?

Would it be worth more than the $5000+ you'd pay for a nice vacation?

Would it be worth the $2500+ you'd pay for a computer and printer?

I think it would.

If removing the source of your relationship pain can immediately make
you happier AND lay the groundwork for you to find love, I'd think
you'd do so, at any cost.

Thankfully, my new book, "Why He Disappeared," does not cost $25,000.
:-)

No, I am offering "Why He Disappeared" to you for the small investment
of $67!

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"Now I Feel Empowered!"

Kim Picture

"I am a 50 year old woman who bought Why He Disappeared when I knew
that I needed to understand what would make my ex treat me so
callously, to clearly not want a future together, and yet say that he
loved me all along and kept me connected to him even though he has a
new girlfriend.

I learned, through reading Why He Disappeared, that because of the fact
that he did not commit to me, he was not the one and that I really
didn't want him back. I realized that I needed to find the man who
would love me unconditionally for who I am, not for who he wanted me to
be. I realized that after all, he really didn't feel as strongly about
me as I did about him.

While I was still in pain for a while after that realization (no one
wants to be told that the person you love isn't that into you), it
helped me to finally let go of him and learn a hard painful lesson. I
think I had still been hoping that he would come to his senses and come
back to me begging to take him back, that he had made a mistake and
wanted to commit to me after all.

Now I feel empowered and I am glad to be free of him, to find the one
who will love me without question. I think I had been putting his
feelings ahead of mine for so long that I was still doing it even after
we had broken up, and when I realized that he really didn't care all
that much for how I felt, it was easier to break the ties."
Kim

"I Had Soooo Many 'Aha' Moments!"

"So eight months ago, I was a clueless girl who was good at scaring
guys away. But throughout my life I had never been taught how to handle
men. I took guesses with everything I did, and a lot of the time it
didn't end very well. Guy after guy broke my heart. I was so sick of
it, so I decided to do something about it.

I bought the ebook 'Why He Disappeared'. BEST money I've ever spent,
worth every penny! I had soooo many 'aha!' moments: I realised all the
things I had been doing wrong all this time. I made a pledge to change
my dating approaches, and soon after, the best thing happened to me.

A month later after getting the book, the guy of my dreams asked me
out. He was everything that I could have asked for! I could not believe
that by applying all of Evan's advice could help us to fall in love
with each other.

A month after being with him, he told me that he realised I was the one
for him. He texts me first everyday and always replies promptly to my
messages. I never ever have worry thinking 'is he going to text me?' or
'is he going to reply?'. He calls me beautiful and he treats me so
nicely. He's understanding, supportive and doesn't pressure me to do
anything. He's so fun to hang out with, and his playful teasing makes
me giggle. He always wants to spend time with me, and he hints at a big
future.

We have been in love for seven months now. Evan, you simply are a
genius!! I cannot thank you enough for the amazing work you wrote in
WHD. I think you have helped me to find the one!"
Anna N.

"I Found Myself A Gem!"

"I got Why He Disappeared after meeting what I sensed was a
lifetime-material man. There was one problem though, he needed to drop
20 pounds. I'm very trim and was looking for the same. I read enough of
your materials to finally decide to give him a try. He has a very
handsome face so I decided to overlook the body. He did mention the
weight when we first met and how he is attempting to lose it so at
least he wasn't in denial.

I found myself a gem. He is by far the most loving and caring man I've
had in my life, and there have been a number. We joined a gym together
and work out three times a week. He's making progress and we're
having fun. I could have just said "delete" when I saw him but
something filed away in my mind said give him a shot. (I don't have to
tell you that "delete" comes from being involved in on-line dating for
quite a while.)

Thanks for your wise counsel. He calls me the miracle that came into
his life."
Christina

"It's Good To Have This Information To Hold On To"

"Hi Evan:

Thank you so much for your insight and advise. I've overcome a great
deal of obstacles after stumbling upon your work. One thing that I took
away from it that has stuck in my head and in my heart is that, if a
guy is not calling me, spending time with me, making plans to spend
time with me or does not want a commitment, DUMP HIM (you're not giving
up your future husband)!

I can't tell you how timely that statement was because I was dealing
with that exact situation, unsure, still holding on to an imaginary
relationship, crying myself to sleep, confused, you know all the drama
that comes along with those kind of men. I have enjoyed your book
tremendously and have learned so much from your blogs and I just wanted
to say thank you.

Thank you so much Evan for providing these tools at little or no cost,
as times/finances are a little tight right now and it's good to have
this information to hold on to and not have to suffer alone. You are
very much appreciated.

Kind regards, "
Janus B.

"I Am Becoming More Confident In Myself"

"Hi Evan,

I too ordered your book Why He Disappeared and read the entire thing
the day I received it. What an eye opener! You know what you are
talking about. I am becoming more confident in myself. I am also
learning to convey that on dates. I am excited about the future. Mr.
Right is out there for me and lookout, baby, here I come!!! Thanks
Evan! God bless you! And keep helping this poor struggling woman out in
Southern Indiana! Take care."
Rebecca S.

"You May Have Just Helped Me Find Mr. Right"

"I accepted a date from a guy I wasn't immediately attracted to,
although he seemed nice enough and was good company. Well, your advice
worked! Having dated a long list of "George Clooneys" based on their
devilish good looks - and being disappointed because they treated me
like crap, I have now found my Mr. Wonderful. He treats me like a queen
- trust me, I've been looking for red flags - but they're just not
there. He brings me flowers, he looks into my eyes and talks to me with
a smile, I can call him anytime of the day or night and he will answer
his phone (something I wasn't able to do with the last couple of guys).
We laugh, have fun, share similar interests, and he is totally amazing.

Thank you Evan. The attraction is building and I think you may have
just helped me find my Mr. Right :-)

Much love,"
Amanda W.

"It Was My Saviour When Starting To Date Again"

"Hi Evan, Just wanted to sincerely thank you for your fantastic advice
in your book! It was my saviour recently when starting to date again. I
work in a women's gym... and the advice I got from my members was very
interesting and to be honest...it stressed me out! Your book grounded
me and helped me to see dating from a guy's point of view. When it
didn't work out, I realised to not take it personally! I appreciate
your honesty and enjoy your 'being blunt' at times! Wishing you health,
wealth, prosperity, joy, love and happiness in 2011 :-)"
Carolyn M.,
Brisbane, Australia

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